What You Gain From Times of Pain and Heartbreak

Ah, pain. We don’t have a damn clue what to do about pain. So, we run from it. We avoid it. We repress it. We ignore it. We hide from it. And then when it sneaks up on us, breaks our walls and penetrates the well-constructed barriers around our hearts, we let it consume us. … Continue Reading


20 Things I Never Got the Chance to Say to You

“It’s you and me against the world,” you said to me one summer night while we were lying in the sand, listening to the sound of the ocean waves. One year later at the very same beach you were cutting off my words as I was trying to speak. You decided to move on with … Continue Reading

Being Cheated on Gave Me My Life Back

Love is so far beyond my realm of expertise. I am a hopeless romantic. I want big love. I want a love that makes my life bright, shiny and full of joy. I, like every other girl, have watched a lot of Disney movies, have read a lot of Nicolas Sparks books and have seen … Continue Reading

10 Healthy Little Ways to Get Through Heartbreak

Heartbreak is a very touchy, difficult sensation to experience. It is even more difficult to overcome. Whether you go through heartbreak in the form of a break up, losing a loved one, or a job opportunity gone awry, it is altogether necessary to find means through which to work through your sorrows. For some, heartbreak … Continue Reading

What do I do when heartbreak is unbearable?

Besides romantic relationships, heartbreak can exist in a multitude of forms: loss of a loved one, an ended friendship, loss of a job, moving to a new home or school, or even bouts of self- deprecation that lead to a lack of self- love. Some say heartbreak “literally feels literally feels like someone stabbing a … Continue Reading

7 Things I’ve Learned From My Parents’ Divorce

In this generation, it is not uncommon to be affected by divorce. Whether it be directly or indirectly, it is not unusual to have experienced the effects of divorce yourself or be close to someone who has. My parents have been divorced for 6 years now. It has been a rocky 6 years, but the knowledge … Continue Reading

The Reality of Dating a Married Man

Dating a Married Man – 66,000 yearly searches on Google In Love With a Married Man – 64,800 yearly searches on Google This is for all the women searching. It’s for the woman looking for answers to a problem that will affect so much more than she could ever realize. I know what you’re thinking. … Continue Reading

When does the heartbreak end?

To the Person with a Broken Heart, I’ve been through my fair share of heartbreaks, and I know it won’t stop at age 21. My first and biggest heartbreak happened when I was 17. I was a sophomore in high school and he was a senior (we’ll call him Jason). Jason and I were in … Continue Reading

10 Things You Realize When You Create Your Own Happiness

When you fall in love with someone and are captivated by all their beauty, you find yourself becoming completely reliant on this person to make you feel that blissful kind of happiness. We’ve all been there before. Whether you’re simply infatuated by the idea of that person or head over heels in love with everything … Continue Reading

The Real Heartbreak Of Losing a Best Friend

When you and your SO break up you know exactly what to do. You change into sweats, put on some Adele, break out the chocolate or ice cream (or both) and have yourself a good cry. After you have accepted what’s happened you call up your besties who immediately come to your aid. They come … Continue Reading