An Open Letter to My First Love

Years have gone by since I’ve first decided I wanted to write this to you. Understanding a first love is difficult and heart-wrenching for all of us. I’ve been staring at a blank screen for days, trying to find the right words. Since the end of 2011, I’ve wanted to write a letter to you, … Continue Reading


When Should I Break Up With Someone?

A break up is never a fun thing to go through, so it makes sense that we avoid it like the plague even when the road gets rocky in our relationships. Truthfully, that’s not a bad thing. Having an attitude where you are choosing to fix your relationship over ending it is a wonderful way … Continue Reading

When does the heartbreak end?

To the Person with a Broken Heart, I’ve been through my fair share of heartbreaks, and I know it won’t stop at age 21. My first and biggest heartbreak happened when I was 17. I was a sophomore in high school and he was a senior (we’ll call him Jason). Jason and I were in … Continue Reading

10 Things You Realize When You Create Your Own Happiness

When you fall in love with someone and are captivated by all their beauty, you find yourself becoming completely reliant on this person to make you feel that blissful kind of happiness. We’ve all been there before. Whether you’re simply infatuated by the idea of that person or head over heels in love with everything … Continue Reading

The Real Heartbreak Of Losing a Best Friend

When you and your SO break up you know exactly what to do. You change into sweats, put on some Adele, break out the chocolate or ice cream (or both) and have yourself a good cry. After you have accepted what’s happened you call up your besties who immediately come to your aid. They come … Continue Reading

So, You Think I’m A Monster

When people break up, grow apart or lose each other, they have to find a way to keep going. They have to make it acceptable to live without someone they thought they couldn’t live without. They have to turn people into monsters in their mind. They make their hearts cold to that person, because if … Continue Reading

A Letter To The People That Have Hurt You

This letter needs no specification of a sender or receiver. It is not from me or from you. It could be from anyone. It is not to any one person, but rather to many people. It is to and from every one of our hearts.  Dear human being, I want to write to you so … Continue Reading